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.....ummmm..... and the answer is????
well had a wonderful weekend with seth and his daughter, kloie.... saturday nite before we went to bed seth asked me a question and i didnt know how to answer him.... so i didnt i texted my best friend and asked her for her opinion on the matter... she told me to go for it and say yes.... she dont know him but she told me yes... WTF??? i am so confused on wat to do rite now.... i really like him and want to be with him but not sure.... alex is always rite on boys and thats why i asked her... but anyways... he is starting 12 hour shifts on monday.... adn he works monday thru saturday..... so not sure if a relationship will really work out for us... plus since fall is just around the corner so training is goin to be in full swing for me and my horse, rocket... finish breaking him over the winter and show season here i come next year! so i dont know anymore..... i want to have a relationship with him but not sure how it will work out... anyone have any opinions that would be awesome..
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Comment by Jackie Cochran on August 11, 2010 at 1:33pm -
In the long term (hard to see at 19) I think that women who put the horses first tend to be happier.
IF the guy REALLY likes you he will find a way. It will be hard for him working 72 hours a week to have a real relationship with you, so that would have to come later.
Sometimes it really helps a guy to get his head straight when the woman he is interested in has something that consumes her life--besides him. If he can take it (you putting your riding first), then he would be someone to look deeper into when your life gets less busy.
Otherwise you'll be feeling like you are missing out on all the fun of life (ie. horses), and on increasing your skill as a horsewoman.
I think that because you are asking us that you already know the answer. Ride and train your horse, if a guy can't adapt to that he is not a very good long term prospect, at least for YOU.
Too many young women think that a guy is the answer to all problems (including boredom with your life.) This is wrong. If you are a HORSEWOMAN the horses fill the vacuum that most women try to fill with a man. Funny enough, GOOD men tend to be more attracted to women who already have a life.
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