Anyone have any ideas re: girthiness when it's behavioral mostly? The vet checked him and after teeth floating, sheath cleaning and he's on supplements for joints, gut and general vitamins I am still having struggles; some of it's me; some of it's him --- he's 16 - gelding - Thoroughbred; I'm 55, creaky and have fears of being dragged down the aisle again; I can get the saddle on when I have help from a trainer or other knowledgeable horse person (forget the hubby!); I want to be able to do this myself --- I'm really trying although my fear doesn't help the situation --- I'm a mental health therapist so I probably will explore this with colleagues as well. I really don't want to have him destroy the very expensive custom made dressage saddle that I got for him (cost almost as much as he did...too much...) Thanks!