Certainly our horses are the control freaks right?  Imagine feed time: they demand our attention as they pace or paw the floor and fence or neigh to us when it's feeding time; they pick on their neighbors and push their pasture-mates around - or worse - the person feeding them. They'll even pin their ears at a stall-mate through the bars.  We call them names such as pushy, big bully or mean-mare.  Is it them? Or are we, their loving owners, the…