When things go wrong in our horse work, our horsemanship, our riding.....we begin to blame ourselves; but we also take it further.  Sometimes we can blame ourselves so much when things go wrong that we stop trying, we stop searching for an answer, we stop attempting to move forward and begin to move backwards.

This does not just affect our relationship with our horses, it starts to creep into other areas of our lives, how we see ourselves, our social interactions, our careers and most importantly our self belief.

So I thought I would share my tips which will form a series of tips over the next few posts to help you restore your self belief...in you and in your horsemanship.

Let me ask you a question.....Do you believe in you?  Henry Ford once said "Whether you think you can, or you think you can't; You are probably right."

Just sit with that for a little while - this is very often the starting point for the horse owners I meet. They have stopped believing that they can.

Today, I want you to start believing that you can and erase, rub out, eliminate I can't from your vocabulary, your internal dictionary and your heart!

Can you do that for me?  

Give it a go, and check back in the next couple of days for some more tips on Restoring Your Self Belief!

Enjoy your day, warmest wishes,  Chanti xx