This may sound wierd, but I'm trying to figure out what my leg should "feel like" while I'm riding. I ride English in an all-purpose saddle (training in hunter/jumper), and I know what my leg position should look like (heels down, straight line from ear to hip to heel), but my question is: what part of my leg do I grip with? Am I supposed to have equal pressure from my thighs and my calves, or should my thighs be tightly holding on and my calves looser?
Thank you!